How To Avoid Being The Ugly American Abroad
Ah, summer — the season of sun, sangria, when the Ugly American tourist raises its ugly head. You know the type: loud, oblivious, and utterly convinced the world revolves around them. While many Americans pack manners with their passports, it only takes a couple of loudmouths to keep the stereotype going strong.
Speaking Of Stereotypes
The term Ugly American isn’t new. Coined from Eugene Burdick and William Lederer’s 1958 bestselling novel The Ugly American, it describes a traveler who’s loud, arrogant, and culturally insensitive. While the book focused on diplomats, the term now includes tourists who, intentionally or not, disregard local customs and norms.
Common Offenses
1. Volume Control Malfunction
As one Reddit user noted, “Talking at about 150 percent of the volume anyone else uses.”
Americans are often pegged as loud. Whether it’s discussing personal matters on public transport or expressing amazement at ancient architecture at the top of your lungs.
ie: “Shall we do David? And then do lunch? Or do lunch, then do David?”
2. Fashion Faux Pas
Kelly green slacks and bold plaids while taking Dublin City’s Guinness Factory Tour. Cargo shorts, baseball caps, and college sweatshirts may be comfy, but they scream tacky American tourist. In towns and cities where locals dress more formally, this attire can come off as disrespectful or sloppy.
3. Culinary Demands
Requesting ketchup for your steak frites in a French bistro or whining about the lack of ice in drinks is obnoxious. Get over it! Local food might surprise you, but ordering chicken tenders abroad is the fastest way to out yourself as a bonafide Ugly American.
4. Tipping Troubles
While tipping is customary in the U.S., it’s not universal. Over-tipping can be confusing or even insulting, and under-tipping can seem downright cheap. Research local tipping practices before dining out.
5. Political Dogma
Announcing your nationality loudly and proudly or diving into political debates? Definitely obnoxious. As one European commented, “Announcing that you’re American in a voice that implies we’re jealous of you. We’re not.”
The Backlash
Recent political tensions are exacerbating negative perceptions. American tourists report feeling unwelcome or being bombarded with questions about U.S. policies. Some are posing as Canadians to avoid confrontations
How To Be A Lovely American
1. Simmer Down – Lower the Volume
Be mindful of your surroundings and adjust the volume accordingly.
2. Dress the Part
Observe local fashion norms and aim to blend in rather than stand out.
3. Savor Local Cuisine
Be Adventurous. Try local dishes and don’t say, yuck! when they disappoint.
4. Learn Basic Phrases
A simple “hello” or “thank you” in the local language goes a long way.
5. Avoid Political Debates
Unless invited, steer clear of political discussions.
6. Check Out Your Countries’ Tipping Norms
Understand local tipping customs to avoid awkward situations.
7. Respect Local Customs
Whether it’s dress codes for religious sites or queueing etiquette, showing respect for local practices is a must.
8. Be Open-Minded
Approach new experiences with curiosity and humility.
9. Mind The Camera
Always ask permission before taking photos or videoing people or private property.
10. Stay Informed
Before traveling, educate yourself about the country’s culture, history, and current events.
Traveling this great, blue, spinning world is a magnificent way to learn and grow. By being respectful and open-minded, you enrich your life and break down negative stereotypes. So, pack your bags, but leave the Ugly American persona at home.
